Bullying and Harrassment
Bullying prevention programs and curriculum at Parker Core Knowledge
At PCK we use the Character Strong Bullying Prevention program. Please see the scope and sequence attached.
“Bullying” means any written or oral expression, or physical or electronic act or gesture, including cyber-bullying, that meets all of the following characteristics:
Is intentional, repeated or likely to be repeated, and marked by an imbalance of power, including physical, social, or socio-economic power; and
Is intended to coerce, intimidate, or cause any physical, mental, or emotional harm to any student; and
Is sufficiently severe that it has the effect of:
Creating an intimidating, hostile, or significantly offensive environment for the learning or performance of school-sanctioned activities of any student; or
Unreasonably interfering with or disrupting the educational performance or participation in any other school-sanctioned activity of any student.
Bullying can begin as early as kindergarten and continue through adolescence. On and off school property bullying can have adverse effects on student physical, mental and emotional health and academics.
The following types of bullying are most common among children and adolescents and typically co-occur.
Physical—includes hitting, kicking, pinching, punching, scratching, spitting, other physical aggression, and damage to or theft of someone else’s belongings.
Verbal—includes name-calling; insults; racist, sexist, or homophobic jokes, remarks, or teasing; use of sexually suggestive or abusive language; threats of violence; and offensive remarks.
Relational/social—includes spreading untrue stories about someone, excluding someone from social groups (social isolation), and being made the subject of malicious rumors.
Cyberbullying—covers any type of bullying that is carried out via an electronic medium such as text messaging, cell phone calls, pictures or video clips via mobile phone cameras, email, chat rooms, social networking sites and apps, and other websites.
How to Help: Steps to Bully-Proof Your Child
Let the school know your safety worries immediately.
Keep a record of time, date, names and circumstances to show a pattern of harassment.
Teach your child self-respect – confident kids are less likely to become a target.
Let your child know it is OK to express anger if done appropriately.
Encourage and promote friendships – there is strength in numbers.
Build social skills early.
Help shy kids with social skills training – role play together situations that have occurred previously.
Explain the difference between telling and tattling. Tattling is when you report something just to get someone in trouble. Telling is when you report that your or someone else is in danger. (Verbal abuse and being excluded are dangers too.)
Stress the importance of confident body language.
Teach your child effective skills for making friends such as sharing, compromising, apologizing, using "I" statements, changing the topic to avoid conflict and using a "diplomatic" approach.
Teach your child strategies to deal with bullying – HA HA SO (Help, Assert, Humor, Avoid, Self-Talk, Own It)
Don't advise either ignoring or physically attacking the bully.
Source: Bully-Proofing Your School: A Comprehensive Approach for Elementary Schools, Garrity et al, 2000.
Bullying vs. Conflict
Bullying is different from conflict. Conflict is a disagreement or argument in which both sides express their views. Bullying is negative behavior directed by someone exerting power and control over another person.
Conflict
Disagreement or argument in which both sides express their views
Equal power between those involved
Generally stop and change their behavior when they realize it is hurting someone
Bullying
Goal is to hurt, harm, or humiliate
Person bullying has more power
Continue behavior when they realize it is hurting someone
Resources for Parent/Guardians:
StopBullying.gov: https://www.stopbullying.gov/resources/what-you-can-do#parents
PACER: https://www.pacer.org/bullying/parents/definition-impact-roles.asp
Cyber Bullying Research Center: https://cyberbullying.org/resources/parents
Bullying: Behavior intended to harm another that is repeated, or likely to be repeated, and is marked by an imbalance of power between the perpetrator and target.
Bullying (Colorado Legal Definition): "Bullying means any written or verbal expression, or physical or electronic act or gesture, or a pattern thereof, that is intended to coerce, intimidate, or cause any physical, mental, or emotional harm to any student." (C.R.S. 22-32-109.1(1)(b)).
Conflict: Disagreement or argument in which both sides express their views, have equal power, and typically stop their behavior when they realize it is hurting someone.
Discriminatory Harassment: Bullying may also be considered “discriminatory harassment” if the bullying is based on a federally protected class (e.g., race, sex, gender).